We usually don’t like tricky women. Even worse, tricky girls like the alternately cunning and naïve teenager who recently got the better of several AFL players, a player manager, and, arguably, the football league itself.
Girls and women have not traditionally had access to the same kinds of power and privilege as men. Instead they have often sought to fulfil their desires, seek justice and even gain retribution through wily manipulation of the narrow sliver of action to which they have had rightful access. The male who triumphs over his foes is a hero. The female who does so against the weight of patriarchal power is often regarded as a spiteful troublemaker. She is anything but admired.
The recent AFL saga has exposed seething public vitriol about the attempts at revenge exacted by a lone teenage girl. She does not appear to have a job, finances or even parental support. In comparison, powerful adult male sporting elites earn more than most professionals, dominate all forms of media, and are celebrated by a massive fan-base for their physical prowess.
Many people nevertheless felt that Goliath was hard done by. Few experienced a stir of empathy for the brave, if misguided and sometimes deceitful, attempts by this female David to strike a blow in response to her perceived sexual and emotional exploitation.
The tricky woman has the audacity to disrupt societal conventions that silence, exploit or discriminate against her. History and mythology hide stories about such women underneath a thick layer of male heroism and rebellion. Yet the tales of these women are no less compelling than those of men who were on gender’s “winning team”.
Women have assumed male personas as one strategy to evade gender restrictions. Female authors from George Eliot (Mary Anne Evans) to the Brontë sisters adopted male pseudonyms to avoid pre-judgement of their writing. The work of a female author might be assumed to be inferior because of its origin in a female mind. In the mid-nineteenth century, French writer George Sand (Amantine Dupin) scandalously took to the comfort and public freedom of wearing men’s clothing to match her male nom de plume.
Less well known are women who actually sought to pass as male. In 1807, Scotswoman Isobel Gunn adopted male clothing to masquerade as a labourer. Through her deception, Gunn became the first European woman to journey to Western Canada. Her ability to pass as a man was so accomplished that she remained undetected by the men she toiled alongside for the Hudson’s Bay Company. Even travelling close to 3,000 miles on foot with them to present day North Dakota did not give up her secret. That is until, to their great surprise, she gave birth to a son.
Isobel’s success in posing as a man defied contemporary standards that dictated women’s inferior strength and weak constitution and which relegated women’s work to lower rates of pay than men’s. Yet Isobel might also be seen as a tricky woman because of the legend that she conducted this elaborate ruse to trail a former lover who had discarded her.
If disguise in name or dress was not a palatable option, outright contravention of feminine norms, or “badness”, might prevail. Historian Sarah Carter has written about an outcast Calgary woman, Caroline “Mother” Fulham, who eschewed proper femininity and embraced disorder at the end of the nineteenth century. She farmed pigs, collected garbage from local businesses to feed them and drank to the point of staggering, and vocal, intoxication. Her lifestyle saw her declared “a moral leper” by a local senator in one of many apparent courthouse appearances.
As Carter observes, women such as Fulham mapped out what was acceptable femininity and which qualities had to be repressed. The bad girl or woman had to curtail her behaviour or face exclusion from society. Fiction also had the option of an untimely death to neatly dispose of unrepentant transgressors of femininity.
In the vastly popular genre of British girls’ school stories in the early twentieth century, rebel girl protagonists are inevitably convinced of the undesirability of their freewheeling, independent ways. They learn the superiority of obedient compliance, and so, it was assumed, would masses of girl readers.
Socialising orderly girls was, and still remains, important to shape the kind of women a culture desires. Girlhood can be imagined as a period of danger, in which inert potential for waywardness and rebellion might be activated.
Mythology offers up an example of the potential destruction that can result from a girl’s newly discovered and unharnessed abilities. Among the goddess Artemis’s first deeds was an arrow shooting-spree in which she targeted an elm, an oak, a wild animal, and, most importantly, a city of unjust men. These men, who committed wicked acts against each other and upon strangers, were pierced with the flight of one of Artemis’s arrows, which did not come to rest until all were dead.
Our latest bad girl is not a suffragette on a soapbox or a world traveller when women were monitored by chaperones. Neither does she resemble the mythical Scheherazade, who risked her own life to successfully save the lives of other women with her story telling. Depending on the true circumstances of her involvement with men of the AFL, perhaps she might share traits with the young Artemis, newly equipped with a quiver of arrows.
Though many commentators have chosen to describe the girl as an adult to emphasise her culpability, her impulsive actions tellingly show a still-maturing girl unable to cope with the magnitude of the media spectacle. Her arrows of retaliation may be wildly directed and dependent on untruths, but their targets may just be rightly chosen, like Artemis’ unjust men. The anger directed toward this girl shows the continued threat of the tricky woman to men keen to maintain their power and privilege.
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Matt Harvey
Lecturer at Victoria University
The "St Kilda Schoolgirl" whose name may now, as I understand it, be legally used, has certainly stirred up the "secret men's business" of football. She has further demonstrated the power of social media and potentially assisted in the undoing of Ricky Nixon. She has also shown that while it may be legal to have sex from sixteen, it is still highly desirable to have some support at least until eighteen and probably well beyond. The affair has been a bonanza for the media but it remains to be seen what effect it will have on this young woman who still has a lot of life in front of her.
Frank Arena
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I dont really agree with that... the only thing if any she proved was that if you can hookup with a footballer, get into his apartment and steal photo's from his computer you can be famous, hardly a quality that anyone wants to encourage in other young women or men to follow.. the media has themselves joined this obscenity by allowing her as much coverage as they did, the 'girl' in this case is now threatening to reveal even more photos of other players from other clubs how can this be tolerated...isn't this blackmail? or is it the fact that as a 17yr old she conciously chose to engage in sex with a guy that its ok? I mean come on really? is this what society has come to?
Chris Lloyd
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There is nothing “tricky” about her actions. She was just maliciously lying. And because she was a young woman accusing muscle bound footballers, it was assumed she was telling the truth. At least she has realised her wrong and has apologised, making her apologists look very silly indeed.
I am intrigued by the term “gender’s winning team.” I presume you mean males? This would be the gender with 4 times higher suicide rate, higher mortality rate at every stage of life including infants, higher levels of depression, alcoholism, imprisonment rates about 25 times higher than females, as well as being vastly more likely to be victims of crime. I cannot think of a single indicator of physical or psychological wellness where females are not the “winning team”.
Matthew Mclean
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Ahh, good old polemics Chris. Sure fire way to reduce a complex argument to its barest form. I'm not where you're gathering your stats from - you may need to check the WHO website. Depression is notably higher among women, esp young women. Unwanted pregnancy, death during childbirth, sexual abuse and rape, as well as an appalling lack of education and employment opportunities as a result, are just a small sampling of female health issues. Does it really matter which sex suffers the most? Why do we keep score so much between male and female problems?
Bob Constable
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Scotswoman Isobel Gunn didn't remained undetected by ALL men she toiled alongside. As she had to have given up her secret to the father of her child.
This article appears to be pretty sexist. As there would be the same anger directed to a man who had been as "tricky" presuming that "tricky" means manipulative, deceitful and a downright liar (about her pregnancy)
Denise Molloy
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Yes it is sexist...great isn't it! Good seeing some from another angle.
Julie Morgan King
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This person is a child, legally and emotionally. She displayed the same impulsive, narcissistic behaviour which is common in many kids her age. This common adolescent trait compounded with a growing quest for fame and celebrity was the focus of a paper at the recent conference on mental health held in Melbourne last month. Her situation was newsworthy because she aimed her idiotic actions at a bunch of footy heroes and used social media brilliantly to achieve her goals. Most kids who use social media to make mischief aim actions at peers, and cop it when discovered by carers: teachers, parents, counsellors, police etc. Where were this girl's carers? She appears to have been abandoned and that's the real tragedy here. The boys will recover. She might not.
Matthew Mclean
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Fantastic article Michelle. I especially enjoyed your references to Artemis and the other trailblazing women. This context and background is sadly missing in the ridiculous media "discussion" surrounding this girl and her story. The almost cultish reaction from St Kilda football club, including the pathetic PR spin doc on Ch9 last week, just proves how humiliated they were by this girl. Which in and of itself highlights the importance of football clubs to appear masculine, insuperable, an "inner sanctum" that cannot be penetrated. The thing I found most disturbing was how the AFL, St Kilda and commercial media (esp football rights holder 7 and 10) described her continually as "vulnerable" and "needing help", in an attempt to lessen the damage she inflicted. The irony was laughable.
"The girl" may not of torn down the walls of the male football fraternity, but she has certainly left lasting damage to the edifice.
Justin Bray
Postgraduate Research Student in High Energy Astrophysics at University of Adelaide
When trying to identify sexism, I find it helpful to imagine the same situation with the genders reversed. Imagine that this case had involved a 17-year-old schoolboy, and a high-profile sportswoman. (Obviously, he could not get pregnant, so imagine that he falsely claimed some other far-reaching effect on his life, instead.) Would the media be more or less condemnatory? If the former, then they are sexist in favour of women; if the latter, they are sexist in favour of men; if neither, then they are neutral.
AFL Football
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It's not like she raped anyone...